And what about women? I am a FATHER, who while my ex was pregnant, threatened to leave, go out of state and adopt my son out, just so I would know he was out there and never be able to find him. Luckily enough, i was at the hospital the day he was born. From day 1 I had full responsibility of my son, and had to fight with the courts because they wanted me to force visitation on her. She eventually signed away her parental rights, and has no responsibility of my son now. No child support, no visitation, nothing.
If she's able to sign a piece of paper, why should a man not be allowed?
What possible claim could the father make in regards to maintaining bodily autonomy in the case of pregnancy and birth? I sure hope you aren't talking about the sperm; if you are, you'd best provide your log book of where every other previous discharge of sperm has gone in your lifetime, otherwise you will have to answer the question as to why you are concerned about this sperm in particular.
What right does she have to force a child on someone who wants nothing to do with it? Someone who did not consent? If anything, SHE should pay the man for the genetic material he provided.
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I'm talking about ruining his life and financially enslaving him for 2 decades.
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Which is entitled to nothing.
A child is entitled to the best those who created it have to offer.Which is entitled to nothing.
The nerve is called the "nerve of awareness". You cant dissect it. Its a current that runs up the center of your spine. I dont know if any of you have sat down, crossed your legs, smoked DMT, and watch what happens... but what happens to me is this big thing goes RRRRRRRRRAAAAAWWW! up my spine and flashes in my brain... well apparently thats whats going to happen if I do this stuff...
He is paying for the child he took part in creating.
I dont see a solution that wouldnt inevitably screw over either the taxpayer or the child for the fathers mistake. So yea, im holding the father and the mother accountable.
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Yes because having children is a net gain. As evidenced by parents having the most disposable income compared to childless couples and singles.
If you're going to argue that the father has an obligation to the child because he helped to create it, then please explain why that obligation must stop when the child reaches adulthood. If being a creator creates the obligation, then the obligation should never go away because one would always remain the creator.
If a fireman rescues a child from a burning building, he has in effect given the child life. Does this create a binding obligation between the fireman and the child?
If a scientist creates a form is sentient life in a laboratory, is the scientist then obligated to care for this life? For how long? Forever?
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The woman doesn't hesitate to name the father on the birth certificate. She could say she doesn't know. But she doesn't. Because free money.
You gain the ability to support yourself as an adult. When you create a human being that has no ability to fend for itself then you have an obligation for its well being.If you're going to argue that the father has an obligation to the child because he helped to create it, then please explain why that obligation must stop when the child reaches adulthood. If being a creator creates the obligation, then the obligation should never go away because one would always remain the creator.
If a scientist creates a sentient lifeform in a lab then yes I'd say he's absolutely responsible for its well being for the duration of its inability to fend for itself.If a scientist creates a form is sentient life in a laboratory, is the scientist then obligated to care for this life? For how long? Forever?
1) She can say she doesn't know, that doesn't change anything. She can be threatened with imprisonment or benefits cut off entirely if she doesn't provide information tot he Child Support Agency.
2) The money doesn't go to her, it goes to the child.
3) How many conspiracy theorist sites did you visit before coming up with this pile of rubbish?
Biologically, children aren't born with the ability to care or provide for themselves, but that's irrelevant. The father has to pay because the law says he has to pay.
The fireman analogy is silly. Anyway, the fireman isn't "giving" the child life, he's just preserving what the child already has.
If a scientist creates life in a lab isn't obligated to care for it for the rest of his life or at all, really. Unless there's a law that says he does. What does this hypo have to do with a father's legal obligations to his child?