I am desperate but picky "Somebody up there hates you"
My potential mate or life partner has now groveled at my feet yet
I am too selfish, at this point and not willing to part with any of my stuff
I want to be single for life (by Choice)
I think it looks stupid on men. I think it looks stupid on women. It's pretty much the only haircut I don't like. Short, medium, long, buzzed, bald, anything in between looks good on both men and women. I'm hoping this half shaved trend goes away soon. My city is just hipster enough to make me see it near on the daily.
I hate the term "single". The term itself has a negative connotation to it due to society thinking I need a woman to define my life.
Singles are pathethic lowlifes who sit in front of a microwave starring at their hungryman. When their meal finishes, they slope to their chair, eat slowly, and feel sorry for themselves.
1. Singles are the only adults I know that think going to "dances" is cool. That's so high school.
2. Singles go on "singles" cruises.
3. Singles are addicted to online dating services.
Ultimately, singles are people who let the entire world know that they're single, because they hate themselves so much that they need a woman or man to define them.
Fuck that noise. I'm not single. I'm dating everyone. A woman can enter my life when I decide it is warranted, if ever.
Until then, I'll walk the lonely road, not because it's the only road i've ever known, but because that's the way I LIKE IT.
Relationships, as of now, has way to high an oppurtunity cost. I wanna spend my energy chasing my god damn dream, not chasing some woman and "making her happy".
Something happened in my life that made me lose my other half.
After this I wanted to have some me time, I've build a cloud castle enveloped with a bubble. That was 8 Years ago.
Nowadays in all honesty even through my highly logical part thinks of it as an advantage and no need to adapt , which partnership is - You tolerate each other and if things don't work perfectly you sit together and adapt your behavior to it. 8 Years ago I didn't want that.
Now I want it, need it. I'm 30 next year and I feel like I'm crumbling ... pieces of me falling. My logic still says how wonderful this is, I dislike common conversations about weather work and what somebody did to someone else at work. But I've gone too far in this and annihilated from the society, because I thought it's for the best.
I feel now how alone I really am and it's scary and sad ... nobody should do this or strive for this.
<~$~("The truth, is limitless in its range. If you drop a 'T' and look at it in reverse, it could hurt.")~$~> L.F.
<~$~("The most hopelessly stupid man is he who is not aware he is wise.")~$~> I.A.
Single by choice, single for life. For now. I have zero desire for children or a family. My experiences with family have been nothing but bad, and I always have this lingering thought in my mind that I will turn out like my parents if I do. I never get into long term relationships and bounce from one woman to the next.
So what?
Do you hate yourself so much that you can't be alone, what's the deal?
Just hire an escort or something dude. Save up some cash and go to Nevada.
You're probably confusing a frustrated sex drive with a desire for emotional intimacy.
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Usually people who say "I don't wanna end up like X" have a good chance of not becoming them. They've already found the consciousness to accomplish this task so I never understood this fear.