Okay, so I'm pretty new, and a bit of a noob; but I learn and I'll listen to people who know.
It seems that on a lot of the maps with a central watch tower (Sky Temple, Blackhearts Bay etc.) or even the less obvious maps, people have started asking for grouping up at the start to win the "group fight" over it.
Thats fine w/e don't particularly think its that worth the investment but w/e
What bugs me is AFTER the position is won or lost or w/e people want to group up fighting afterwards while lanes are being pushed or w/e.
I go to a free lane to soak up some XP for the team then get flamed for not joining in, as far as I'm concerned the fight is over already and it is moer important to not fall behind XP-wise at this point than keep pushing for some extra kills.
So the question is: "Stay in a 5 man pack for the first 3-4 minutes or split into lane and farm XP?" It seems if the enemy wants to sit 4 people in top lane for example, then its best to just fight them at your towers and get the XP from the lane they aren't farming and just beat them down a few minutes later with a 1 or 2 level advantage, especially timing it for when you hit 7 and tey are still on 5 or 6...
What is the MMOC community opinion on this?