I really don't get this archconservative clothes shaming. It's ridiculous when fundamentalist Muslims or Christians do it to anyone who exposes anything but their hands/face, and it's just as ridiculous with you, here. It's exactly the same thing. The only difference is in degree, and it was never the degree that was the issue.
Coercion isn't complicated. What you've described here clearly isn't coercion. I have no idea where you'd even get that impression, since nothing I said even suggested it.