Originally Posted by
Claymore
For me, it's not really "choosing between WoW of FFXIV", so much as "What do I feel like playing RIGHT NOW?". One of the things I love most about FFXIV is that it is highly considerate of your time, and never feels like it penalized you for "falling behind". It's a great game to take extended breaks, and come back for a month or two on occasion -- or get sucked into playing hardcore for a few months.
I definitely went all-in on FFXIV early on, as I'd felt really burnt-out on WoW (as others have said, once Arthas died, it felt like they were struggling to find their pacing). I eventually stopped playing FFXIV (financial reasons as the time), and subsequently eventually returned to WoW. For me, personally, I just don't have it in me to abide by strict raiding schedules anymore, so I only play MMO's for the single-player content, as strange as that may sound. FFXIV definitely makes it a lot easier, and I've generally always found the community surrounding that game to be incredibly pleasant and helpful. In fact, the only time I ever encountered an 'asshole' in FFXIV, I was trying to tank, one of the DPS gave me shit, I explained I was new to tanking, and he apologized and started giving me tips (apparently he was a pretty experienced tank).
Honestly, as shallow as it is, the biggest reason I couldn't stick with FFXIV is because I suffer from Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder. So, I get hung-up on stupid "choices" that realistically have no bearing on the game or the story (ie. "should my character start in Ul'dah as a Gladiator? Or Limsa Lominsa as a Marauder?"), and I just internally obsess over those things until I can't even enjoy the game.