Saw this pop up in my news feed today. The highlight of the video is where the passenger becomes upset and calls the driver a racial slur. But if you ask me, quite a few things transpired beforehand that contributed to this unfolding of events.
If it was a personal favor to a friend to transport these people, I'd totally sympathize with people defending the driver. However... this is his job, he is employed. You need to demonstrate professionalism in a job - No racist remark was made before the passengers were asked to exit the vehicle. I would not defend his behavior while in the vehicle and I do not agree with his behavior after exiting the vehicle but that is after the behavior of his passenger became intolerable. I might cringe or disagree with the actions he took but would not criticize them.
I do not condone or excuse the behavior of this passenger referred to as "Nate", but I feel like the driver made it a bigger problem than it had to be by putting a personal agenda ahead of a professional one. I have no clue why this passenger entered the vehicle saying "white privilege" but it clearly triggered the driver and put him in a foul mood as he later notes the phrase when things become heated.
Here are my thoughts:
If you do not like drunk people, you probably should not drive for a company like uber. Drunk people need rides home so they do not get DUIs, kill or harm other people or cause damage to their own and other people's property. It is more convenient than a Taxi, it is an ideal service for a night out or when you are on vacation.
No, "Do you have a fuckin aux cord? Do you have an aux? Can I get the radio?" is not how you greet someone. This is incredibly embarassing and obnoxious behavior. But these are drunk college kids, what do you expect? The guy is visibly irritated and starts making remarks like he is watching him, that there is something wrong with him, asking why he is sweating so much. If you ask me he is basically suggesting the guy is on drugs and that it is making him uncomfortable but instead of saying this, he just glares at him and says he is "trying to figure out what is wrong" with him.
He seemingly puts it behind him, moves the vehicle about 40 feet and tells the guy to stop touching his stuff. Weird, but okay. He says okay. Then he immediately, like 2 seconds after, tells him he needs him to get out. From there, the video hits its highlight.
Now I don't know about any of you, but that would have been a strange car ride even if the ride concluded without further incident and I reached my destination. If it was me, presumably telling an inside joke to my friends, entering a vehicle only to see my driver glaring at me I would probably ask him what his problem was. My conversation with my friends is really none of his business - he is paid to drive from Point A to point B. Should really mind his own Ps and Qs.
The guy (Nate, the passenger) was obviously hyped up and frustrated. Once things got heated I just felt like he said it just to say it, because I can think of a lot more things to say to piss someone off than just calling them the N word over and over again. This of course does not excuse his disgusting behavior but you have to admit this whole exchange was very strange.