And there's nothing wrong with that, people have different relationship styles. I am the same...but some people really get into relationships and want to talk/be together 24/7 in the beginning, that's ok too (unless it gets truly codependent, but being together a lot doesn't *necessarily* mean a relationship is codependent). Sounds like the OP might be more of the latter type.
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Yeah. Sometimes it takes a whole lot of work for a person to get to a point of loving themselves.