This attitude is growing throughout the world. Basically, the US does not do nation building at a time when many nations need building.
The US is also throwing around way too many hard power demands. This gives us a few high profile victories, which are more than outweighed by lots and lots of low profile losses, combined with other countries negotiating much tougher with us on every little detail.
Then you get last night's debate, and your statement almost seems natural and obvious.
for me, just reality for you,
for China.