That's an excessively simplistic take on housing costs. Yes, that's true, but that doesn't mean there aren't things we can do to fix it.
It's the same shit as saying "Oh well rich peoples' finances are too complicated to tax, lets not bother".
I really hate this mindset.
I also completely don't understand your explanation to my question. How does living 45 miles away from something end up being faster than living closer to it in the city?
I assume you're talking about heavy traffic in the city, but I dont understand why that's any different with you being further away? Won't you be in that traffic either way?