Originally Posted by
Beingbob
Don't be so hard on yourself - remember it's only a game that we play for fun, and anyone who does flame someone in entry level content (I assume you don't do anything higher than heroic dungeons or keys below 10) is being immature and entitled. Honestly at any time when someone does flip out and say "fucking noobs" or something after a key is depleted, I instantly assume they are either an immature teenager or an adult loser, since a reasonable adult does not lose their shit over a video game nor berate/bully others over mistakes that in the grand scheme of things are minor.
Everyone was new/bad at some point, even if that was far in the past, and it's only healthy for the game to have newer and/or more casual players around. If you avoid competitive content, you won't improve at it.
Being extremely hard on oneself is generally a waste of time, irrational and counterproductive - torturing yourself won't make anything better, making mistakes in a video game is not a big deal, and most people do not struggle with such intense feelings from minor mistakes. If this "guilty syndrome" bothers you outside of gaming as well I'd seek out a therapist if I were you, as it can be difficult to break out of an unhealthy mindset alone.