but what does this scenario do for the mans responsibility ? that is the issue I'm asking you about. because if you don't see that the man in this issue should have the option of limited or no liability then you are essentially saying that a woman can use a man for a sperm donor without any thought for his choices in the matter, and then hold him equally responsible for the financial burden her intentional and willful act incurred.
The nerve is called the "nerve of awareness". You cant dissect it. Its a current that runs up the center of your spine. I dont know if any of you have sat down, crossed your legs, smoked DMT, and watch what happens... but what happens to me is this big thing goes RRRRRRRRRAAAAAWWW! up my spine and flashes in my brain... well apparently thats whats going to happen if I do this stuff...
I think most people agree that even if the father wants the kid and is willing to take full responsibility for it, he still can't stop the woman from aborting that child. She gets to choose over her body, that's where the line is drawn, but when it comes to financial responsibility there should be more equality.
The problem is that when she lies about contraception, it's 0% safe.
You remember that russian roulette analogy? How having sex is like playing russian roulette. And the problem was when the woman rigged the game and put a bullet in every chamber.
Men's financial future shouldn't be subject to the risk of "crazy bitch impregnates herself on purpose".
Im all for equality and all, but I'll just leave this here.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/0...n_1581605.html
Having a man donate sperm and then expecting they pay for the child, as in the case that popped up recently, is completely backwards and antithetical to the whole sperm donor process to begin with.
The nerve is called the "nerve of awareness". You cant dissect it. Its a current that runs up the center of your spine. I dont know if any of you have sat down, crossed your legs, smoked DMT, and watch what happens... but what happens to me is this big thing goes RRRRRRRRRAAAAAWWW! up my spine and flashes in my brain... well apparently thats whats going to happen if I do this stuff...
Female: i want this baby
Male: i dont
Female gets pregnant through whatever measure
Female now has all the options in the world.
Abort it and keep the partner
Abort it and dump the partner
Keep the baby and keep the partner
Abort the baby, dump the partner and be set for life
Male has the following options:
Accept his fate and stay in a relationship where trust has been broken forever
Abandon his flesh and blood, ruining his life with the alimony payments
males get shafted.