Just a quick observation here (not a fight). The highborne haven't joined Darnassus, they've just allied with it. They are not ruled by the night elves, and part of the conditions of their alliance is that the Highborne will not have any restrictions on their use of magic imposed by the night elves, nor would they be required to change their culture, but instead would live in their own ways. Anyone who joins them would have to join their own way. - Wolfheart.
In effect they operate like an Order not unlike the Sisterhood or the Druids, but are also a people. They don't mix or integrate, but they help one each other out. It's a mutual arrangement, one Malfurion and Tryande are reported to have fought to make happen on their behalf against opposition we find out originated from Maiev. But by the start of cataclysm, this was the status quo.
So I find myself in one of these rather rare moments of late that I am in agreement with something you say. Indeed @
Exceillion , he is right. It has been shown that Night elves need a lot of help, and they know it. this is what we are been shown, and it is not what I wanted to believe of them or admit, but that is the situation. The extent of it was shown in their lifting of the exile on the highborne from their company and of the ban on using arcane magic. And while the philosophical reasons for not using the arcane ended with the arrival of the legion mainly, the night elves still didn't use it until Cataclysm - which shows you they were desperate enough to do so. What was surprising to me was how quick the night elves were reported to take to it, how eager. Prior to that I had thought they didn't like magic, and that they were right about, I even criticiszed the move by blizzard. But a lot of things I thought were the case turns out the lore showed were not. So I went through it all over again, carefully looking at exactly what they blizzard had written.
I found it wasn't the lore that was inconsistent, but my view - the night elves went from "could do no wrong", "amazingly abled super elves" to a desperate people pushed to the edge, short on resources, overwhelmed and outnumbered, and having to dig deep. This was the whole premise of accpeting the highborne. initially they didn't want to do it as the senintel in wotlk 3.4 showed , but Tyrande is the one that felt it necessary and broke with the druid dominated ideal to let them in. Her husband Malfuion also agreed with her and Mordant Evenshade.
The results of cataclysm were experienced for all of us. Despite the night elves' new additions, they didn't win any of their advances. They lost Azshara, bombed in Stonetalon mountain and had their stronghold in Desolace eradicated. It was the exact opposite of what I had thought of them. However they didn't entirely lose either, they survived, I think that this was because of magic that had returned to them, helping just barely enough to allow the alliance hero and human forces to provide vital relief before Ashenvale and Stonetalon mountain were totally lost, helping them at least maintain their presence their despite their heavy losses.
I haven't seen night elves have any show of force since their introduction before the final battle atop mount hyjal agians tthe re0invading legion force. I conclude that there forces were heavily depleted which prompted their need to actually make an alliance unable to stand on their own two feet as a neutral 3rd entity.
Blizzard effectively neutered the night elves by having them join the alliance. Since then we have seen them unable to actually succeed or survive without human intervention or worgen or draenei - they've been weak, and the legion arriving has further depleted their resources - Look how many sentinels join you in the broken shore campaign.. look how few join the fight against Ysera with the Priestesses in Val'sharah - they don't have much left at all, and strategically are weakened, but hey, they still show up. What little they can spare, the high priestess herself goes to her city of birth with the best she can muster after the troubles in Val'sharah. The wardens are decimated, their prison run by demons, their numbers so low they can't staff or defend their towers so the Forsaken and Gilneas (horde and alliance) now move in to possess.
Everywhere on the broken isles where night elves appear is much death and loss, and though at least this time they are shown to fight with a bit more spine than in cata, they have taken the brunt of the losses there. Not the shal'dorei are much different. it's their home turf, but they're only a city, and as it stands now in this week of 7.1 the civilians have all sided with the rebels and evacuated the city to take up arms against Elisande and those loyal her. Led by Thalyssra, they are a people divided, joined by the smallest armies in both alliance and horde in the night elves and the blood elves.
Nobody else answered the call to help the nightborne or stop the Legion there. Not the orcs, nor humans, nor trolls, tauren, goblins, dwarves or gnomes - still licking their wounds from the broken shore, the elves seem to have thrown what they have against the legion in Suramar, the night elves most of all. It is no wonder Tyrande is keen the nightborne stand up for themselves in this conflict, which she marked with what seemed like a satisfaction even a hint of gladness and relief that they INSIST on playing a part in the conflict. So she instructs you to help assist and train them as much as possible - the more shal'dorei that join the conflict the less of her own forces would have to give their own lives - because they aren't that many left and they really can't afford it - but hey.. the situation is desperate no?
Dislike how intense i get in my explanations or not, this is what we are shown if we follow the story