I see this happen about 50% of the time. You get into a BG, you start losing, someone gets pissed off because losing. "We won't win unless we do objectives/kill the healer/peel your healer blah blah blah".
Has it ever occurred to these people that winning isn't everything in a random BG? For me it's the place I go to smash face and not give a damn about winning or losing. Yes I play by objectives, but if I have the berserker buff and I see that squishy Fire Mage in mid then I'm gonna go and fuck him up. Because it's fun.
If you want to be competitive, play rated. Same deal with Quick Play in Overwatch, if you want to play competitively, play Competitive. I have no clue why people are so damn competitive in casual areas of the game.
EDIT: I'm gonna reword this again, because I suck at rewording things it seems.
I join a BG because I want to play my class and earn a bit of honor and AP while doing it.
I play the objective. If the EFC needs killing or the FC needs defending, I will go and help them. On certain classes (like Warrior) I will pick up the flag myself. I will attempt to win.
I will NOT just drop my role and go fight people in mid if we start losing. I don't know where people got this idea but this is not true at all.
But if we win the BG while the BG itself has been stale because no one's fighting, then I'm not going to feel very accomplished. It won't feel like we've won, it will just feel like we've stomped them and got free rewards. To me that feels just as bad as losing (only exception is if we get completely stomped and we can't do anything about it, that feelsbadman).
If I'm fighting in mid, and the FC is in no immediate danger, I won't disengage from the mid fight, because I'm having fun playing my class there. Fighting in mid is more fun than sitting in a flag room for 2 minutes waiting for someone to contest you.
I want to join a BG and have a good time. I don't want to completely stomp them, and I don't want to get completely stomped. If neither of those happen, I consider that a good BG.
Clearly I have different opinions about that and it's causing a ruckus in the BG chat.