Originally Posted by
Claymore
Well, the past week has been pretty pretty rough (wallet was stolen, then in a car accident; nobody injured though), but overall, my life is generally in a good spot. For the first time in my life, I'm working at a job I don't completely despise, something that could turn into a life-long career.
Yet, I'm finding myself getting more and more depressed.
I work in politics, but I don't truly *care* about politics. Because of that, there's really kind of a ceiling to how much I can really grow, unless I really commit my every waking moment to paying attention to politics. I can't say there's really much of anything that I'm passionate about, but politics I care for even less than most things.
I feel like I really can't connect with people. I mean, I have a lot of people that I considered to be friends, but it seems that nobody really considers me to be *their* friend. Something I've found to be more and more true and I grow older, is it seems people only want to be friends with others they deem "cooler" than themselves. More successful, more attractive, whatever.
It feels like, no matter how hard I work, or how positive I try to be, nothing just ever seems to work out. I feel like I'm "broken" somehow; like everyone else just intrinsically knows "how to live life", but for some reason, I just don't. I mean, shit; I'm 28 never kissed a girl/woman, never held hands. Hell, the only "date" I've ever been on was a few years ago, with some chick I met on tinder, and it was *painfully* awkward.
Meanwhile, my best friend makes life seem completely effortless. He's just instantly "good" at anything he does, he literally has women flirt with him anywhere he goes, despite being married, he actually *enjoys* being physically active, and whether it's younger fresh-out-of-college friends, or older, well-known politicians, everyone goes out of their way to include him and his wife.
Me, on the other hand, I've been trying to get together people for a Super Bowl party, and I've not even gotten one fucking response from any of the people I've texted or messaged.
I just... I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I know that I'm whining right now, but I genuinely try to stay positive and upbeat, even when I'm having a rough day. People *seem* to enjoy being around me when they are, I've even been described as a "people person", but I just don't know how to make that deeper connection with people.
I feel lonely, and more and more, I feel like I'm just becoming a zombie. I can't seem to get "excited" about anything, I can't even summon the enthusiasm to get out of bed, and it just feels like I'm "going through motions". Literally just a few days ago, I got home from work at 6:30 and I went up to bed. I just laid there for hours; I thought about checking the time, but I couldn't even bring myself to look at my phone next to me, thinking "What's the point? The light will just make it take longer to fall asleep".
I can't help but think that maybe there's just something wrong with me. Maybe everyone else has some chemical in their brain that I don't, or maybe I have some sort of mental disability that everyone else is aware of but I just don't see. It just sucks to feel unwanted, in every way, by pretty much everyone.
I dunno. I'm just venting at this point. Take it for what you will.