I'm not saying import those values. Saying they won't reform their religion by assimilation is not a statement backed up by any facts that I'm aware of. Actually, assimilation is how most reform has happened. It is the sharing of cultures that allows it. It is having women in burkas now living in a place where they are protected by laws that allow them to go out without them. Slowly, some of them will choose to do without. Others will start to see their friends and neighbors accepting those who no longer live in a bag. They may then also start to choose a new way of life. Gays came out of the closet. Gays people had respect for started to do so. People started to realize friends and neighbors they liked were actually gay, so perhaps it wasn't a bad thing to be okay with that lifestyle. I'm not guaranteeing it will work this way in this particular case; I'm just saying that there's precedent for it. What I'd REALLY like to say is that, to me, the regressives need to support those trying to bring reformation instead of slamming them for saying Islam as it is practiced by many isn't always great, and the right wingers need to support truly moderate and western Muslims who are trying to bring about a more modern version of Islam instead of painting Islam as nothing but a tool of repression. Perhaps a lot of it is that way now, but supporting those who want to change that is the best way to move beyond it.