The "You Trumpsters" comment wasn't directed at you specifically, but more a general you, as I see the "democratically elected" defense thrown around way too frequently. Sort of similar to the "He deserves your respect because he is president" line of thought, which is equally empty of any merit.
The point democracy is that it is still Democracy and significantly better than pretty much every other option available (other then Benevolent Dictatorship). This however won't change the fact that a Democracy is still effectively "majority rules" in action, and that there is nothing preventing the majority from electing a fuckwit.
As to speaking in good terms about Trump, sorry, but since there is literally nothing good that you can actually say about the man, then yes, that kind of earns you a few sideways glances when you try it. And no, all the people who voted for Trump are not rednecks. Some of them are just straight up morons who thought voting for Trump would be a good way to "stick it to the system", and voted because they actively wanted to hurt the status quo. Some of them bought the MAGA propaganda hook line and sinker and honestly believed Trump cared about them.
As to the "Basket of Deplorables", it was always the demographic that votes republican no matter how often the republicans manage to fuck them over anyway, and was not expanded to include other groups of Trump voters. They still get their own categories. The people who thought both sides stank and decided to vote for Trump anyway was pretty explicitly addressed in the full Basket of Deplorables comment as people the Dems could potentially win over if they made the effort to reach them (but I am guessing that you have never actually read the entire comment).
And sorry, but when you don't like what you have been eating, and your new options are: More of the same, or a really attractively arranged Shit Sandwich, if you are stupid enough to go for the Shit Sandwich just because it is not more of the same, then you are a fucking idiot, and deserve the foul taste in your mouth and inevitable stomach cramps, nausea, diarrhea and everything else that comes with it.