i live in nyc and i can tell you i very rarely see a man spreading his legs to the point where he takes up 2 seats (or 2 seats worth of space)... if anything on my way to class in the morning i see lots of women applying makeup, putting belongings that should be on their laps next to them to take up more space, or crossing their legs so that people can't walk past them comfortably. "manspreading" is probably the biggest double standard third wave "feminism" has thrown at the U.S.
Don't know why it's called manspreading, where I live in England at least you see women taking up 2 or 3 seats far more often than men do so their bags don't have to touch the ground (heaven forbid).
Last edited by mmocb22ba0bc6d; 2017-06-23 at 05:17 PM.
My favorite part of watching dudes try to explain the 'necessity' of "manspreading" - even in videos - is they have to resort to some mythical scenario where they're clamping their knees together and putting their nuts in a vice grip. Even women don't sit that way.
No one cares if your legs are slightly apart. "Manspreading" that women cry about is when you have spread yourself out until your legs are in other people's space, as if you're trying to give your balls a nice breeze. I have never encountered discomfort sitting like a normal human being and occupying only one seat.
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Agreed, if we actually need a law so people don't have to ask men to make room by closing their legs then we surely need a law that makes sure women don't put their purses next to them in an empty seat or anyone putting backpacks and grocery bags in the seat. I need to be protected from that awkward conversation as much as everyone else does with the spread legged man.
We could also use a law that makes sure fat people stand and don't take up two seats as well. Then maybe a law that requires people who use public transportation to bathe and use deodorant so people can actually sit next to them. And then a law that makes sure that children under a certain age sit in their parents lap, it isn't my fault you brought a child into the world who takes up 1/8 of a seat. Put that fucker in your lap and stop taking up space of actual contributing members of society. MORE LAWS TO AVOID AWKWARD CONVERSATION!
Last edited by Zoldor; 2017-06-23 at 05:59 PM.
Not spreading your legs will quickly build up heat in your crotch area, especially in summer (we are talking about public transport in Madrid here, not the air-conditioned Oval Office). And since the male body pays extra special attention to the temperature of our balls (seriously) you are bound to sweat more in that area. Which isn't fun, needless to say.
Of course there is spreading your legs a bit and then there is spreading like the guy in the video. I would never invade the space of my neighbor, if only to avoid skin contact with whover is next to me.
Last edited by Malacrass; 2017-06-23 at 06:11 PM.
1. If your legs take two damn seats there's a problem. Manspreading was initially made to target men who dared not keep their legs together and it was absurd.
But in this case, it's extremely clear that it's not about keeping your legs together; it's about not invading the personal space of other users.
Now if only there could be a ban on pursespreading.
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