Can you describe the motivations of the opposition, understand why they believe what they do and do the things they do? Right or left, conservative or liberal?
In your opinion what are the goals and motivations of the opposition?
This TED talk is pretty good, he crams a lot of stuff into 15 minutes but one of the things he talks about is how in many Asian religions there is no right and wrong there just is.
So if you can pretend for a moment that you are Bhudda and there is no right or wrong, take a step outside the bubble and look at both the left and right not judging them just trying to understand them.
He mentions Bhuddism in the video.
The idea is that if you truly can understand the other side you'll be less angry at them.
Ying and Yang, light and dark, no good, no bad.
(I know this was posted yesterday but it was taken down)