There is an anecdote that I think fits what happened in Gamergate very well.
In the year 209 BC in China, heavy rain prevented two lowly officials from delivering conscripts to a garrison on time.
"What is the penalty for being late?" the first official asked.
"Death" replied the other.
"What is the penalty for joining the rebellion?" the first official asked.
"Also death" replied the other.
The dynasty fell to the rebellion three years later.
I followed what happened in gamergate in detail. I saw the article denouncing gamers as smelly neckbeards. I saw the ensuing rage. I saw the out-of-control stuff done by the lynch mob happening both before and after the articles. I saw the misrepresentation done by a collective media. I read the in-depth bickering, trolling and at times rage-inducing insanity posted online. I followed the broken mess surrounding the wikipedia article, and the scars it impaired on that site. I read about the bomb threats. I read about the death threats. I read about the collusion. I read about the zealots. I read about the nerd-hating bullies. I read about the actual misogynists. I learned about the attention-seekers. I saw the radicalization. I saw the seething hypocrisy, and I lost some sleep over that some people could be that vile. But most of all, I saw that the two sides weren't remotely discussing the same topic.
And I decided, very early, that I would not add anything to that mess myself. The entire debacle was a community-destroying shit-fest with almost no good people in it. It reinforced my view of online trolls. It destroyed what faith I had left in gaming media. They might be the side that got to write the wikipedia history, but they won a very Pyrrhic victory. It destroyed a lot of my faith in media in general, and I do not think I am alone in that.
But most importantly, "gamers" certainly did not die. It is the ray of light amongst all this hate. I can to date say that as far as Gamergate goes, I am pro-TotalBiscuit: "Calm the fsck down!". We should enjoy games, not fight culture wars. Gaming is, and has always been, apolitical and open to everyone. But from what I have read the last 3 years, this stance clearly makes me a pro-gamergater, regardless of my personal feelings about it. Thus why I think the anecdote is so fitting.
Ask again in another 7 years and I might be able to give my actual summary on it. Until then, I am more happy if this entire sordid mess is forgotten.