Sure, I mostly debate for the debate itself though, I like to challenge my beliefs.
That's your opinion, and I still disagree. If the person I targetted with my affection was in a stabil relationship, ring or not, I'd leave them be, because know what? What matters to me is them being happy. If they're happy, then I have no right or want to interfere, I will just get over myself and be the best friend that I can be to them, if applicable.Ok bare with me let say this were you or me, or whatever, and i am like OMFG I love this _______ can't live without. Granted we are adults, granted this is stupid, but hear me out, because this shit can happen.
People can suddenly feel after whatever path they are on, it is the wrong one, the chances are not good, I conceded this is a stupid idea. However if you or I ran across a situation where someone either of us came across simply just rocked our world, and they feel the same and there is a real connection NO a ring shouldn't make much of a differences outside of the considerations that you've given.
But recognized and moved passed, people do get together, and unless it's marriage it's fair game.
Gotta weigh how much it's worth then. In this situation I don't find any worth in risking it. If someone did take the risk, they're either too impulsive, or the consequences don't matter that much to them, which puts the intent of the attempt into question as well, then it just comes off as "just wanted a quick fling"...or they have wasy access to another job opening as well.Ok I see how you frame that, and I can't say NO because that is an opinion, but my counter is not knowing the situation, I also wouldn't want to encourage two people to be miserable the rest of their lives either, when there is a real shot, however stupid or slim to none i think it is.