Would you really want to spend months of time dating a person and then lets say 1 year later after you are talking about moving in together you found out shes a big amount in debt?
Would you not have wanted to know that 9 months ago?
I don't know.. I am a bit on the fence on this one as I've dated people that did not have a single penny to their name.
How can you have an equal relationship when one party is taking care of the other financially?