Anyone who doesn't say no
Anyone who doesn't say no
Married, so it is not a concern for me. But when I was single, I did not look for girls, they came to me and I was attracted by one thing....looks. It just so happens the only one I have ever loved was and is, my wife. I can not say why I loved her. Her looks was the initial attraction of course, but it was something special about her.
I did not have any picture or thought in mind on who I would want to marry. In fact, I did not even have much thought on marrying. I just knew after a short time, it was her who I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. But she is not perfect and we have had our disagreements, but I still love her just as much as ever.
I look for someone that shares my ambitions and interests.
But its too late for dating, i found someone i wanted, we are heading towards making 5 kids and a fortune for them. An Empire named after MYSELF!
And from these 5 kids I DEMAND atleast 3-4 kids of their own. And one more thing, if gods see fit to give me daughters, their future husbands will still take MY NAME! As for sure we will be the dominant family.
I care not of social norms, i care of whos the dominant family (financially, behaviour wise and so on).
Im Tywin Lannister incarnate!
Last edited by mmoc96b81ade63; 2017-11-12 at 04:38 PM.
lol all these people saying financially stable lol what the hell are yall bringing to the table?
mr pickles
I know it's cliche but Jesus Christ personality. I've gotten over so many flaws just because the girl in question was interesting and assertive instead of the typical shy, quiet starfish that's as dull as dirt.
I feel like the gross majority of people is fucking copy pasted, they have no interests, no stories, they can't engage in coversation and be genuinely interesting to talk to. As soon as I find a person that fits my idea of interesting I'm willing to overlook a lot of physical flaws.
I have to be attracted to them in the short term or it's not lasting until the long term anyway. So initially, looks are all that matters. I have a description for people I like that I'm not initially attracted to, I call them friends.
Last edited by Thoughtcrime; 2017-11-12 at 09:42 PM.
Decent looking, being a decent human and being smart is usually what I'm looking for. I'm thinking about dropping the later though, it has turned into solving a 4d rubics cube by now and it seems I have lost the manual.
1. She's a good person.
2. She's attractive both inside and out.
I look for a lot of things.
Obviously, I have to look at her and feel a sense of connection. However, this is surprisingly, something that can come with time. Someone can be unattractive and the way they carry themselves, feel about themselves, and the way they make me feel about myself will go a lot further than someone with great tits and a nice ass.
I also look toward people who are more independent. I don't want to financially support someone else. I also don't need someone who is going to cling to me until my dying breath after they shot me for trying to break up with them.
The single most important thing is showing kindness. I knew someone who is HOT. She reminded me of a punk version of Uma Thurman. She could suck a golf ball from a garden hose. And she was a very independent person. However, she was one mean bitch. She would insult you, laugh, and say it was just a joke! She would put down your friends and your family. Eventually, despite the fact that her craziness was an aphrodisiac, I had to move on and break it off because she was toxic.
Thats fair enough you def want both of yall to be financially stable in a relationship.
mr pickles
I'm 35, good-looking (according to some I've met), and make a good six-figure salary, and put 1/3 of my monthly income into savings.
Why would I go for a mother in her 30s when I can get a hot 20-something? That's not a shot at you, I understand your point. But just asking what you have to offer a man in that position that a younger, more attractive woman without kids wouldn't?
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As for what I look for...
For dating, is she physically attractive and can I tolerate her personality out of bed?
For marriage, well, I do have a list of things I'm looking for.
1. An attractive, slim, healthy appearance
2. No older than 30 preferably
3. No kids (I could look past kid(s) from a previous marriage for the right girl, but 3 kids from 3 different ex-bfs? No way)
4. Educated, or from a good background (she needs to be classy enough I don't worry about taking her to formal functions)
5. Takes some pride in her appearance/doesn't go out in sweats or pajamas
6. Somewhat similar cultural/religious background (Eastern Orthodox preferably, but I could make it work with a Catholic or a Jewish girl from the same regional background)
7. Somewhat traditional in her views on gender roles. I'm not a troglodyte, but I like a woman that likes being feminine and being lady-like. I'm fine dating crazy, tattooed wild women, hell, I seem to attract them, but not looking to marry one.
I look them in the eyes and sneakily check out thier boobs/body when they look away
I've actually never dated, at least not deliberately. My entire romantic history was kind of an accident.
But if you mean what I'm attracted to... uh it's complicated. Common themes: unusual, independent, funny, "intelligent" (whatever that means), interesting...
When someone says "financially stable" to me that means "not a frequently unemployed person who constantly makes promises they don't keep and keeps stringing you along". Not "famous millionaire".
Someone that isn't creepily filling out a spreadsheet with answers taken from the innumerable amounts of threads asking seemingly mundane questions on an off-topic section of a video game forum.
I'm 35, and I generally avoid a 19 or 20 yr old for anything serious, but comparing a 27 yr old old to a 20 yr old they can be worlds apart.
I've known 27 or 28 yr old women that had their shit together much more than some women I know in their 30s that are absolute messes.