Originally Posted by
Feefel
My parents are divorced and my dad came to live "temporarily" with us when my mom had her hysterectomy back in March. He had a home and a car then, but wouldn't leave after my mom was better. He moved out of his rented house and broke his car and made my mom pay for it. He's a nuisance on our whole family and makes us spend money we don't have to and go out of our way to do things for him and it puts alot of stress on us all. I love my dad, I really honestly do, but how can I get him to move out to his own apartment or whatever to make my family life easier on all of us? I really don't want to hurt his feelings and I know I'll feel terrible about it all but it would positively benefit all of us.
And yes, for the record I have asked my therapist, friends, etc, about this, but it couldn't hurt to get your opinions too.