Met a girl, how can I see her again?

[MAGAmobile]

Yeah I plan on avoiding the whole stalker thing haha. That's just too much.



I'm almost 20, been dating and fucking around with girls for all of high school. This time, I actually feel like I messed up the greatest opportunity.

At 20, you seriously think you missed the greatest opportunity of your life? Maybe at this point in life you have, but you have a very long way to go with plenty to learn just from this alone to go by so you don't mess up again. If you see *signs* from other girls, go for it and see what works and what doesn't. While behaviors of everyone is different, you can normally tell someone's intentions by their behavior and body gestures in time.

[AlexTheGreat]

Again, thanks everyone for the responses.


Even the completely pointless ones.

[Kouki]

Well...

I met this girl through some friends in my astronomy class (There's about 150 people in the class). For the past 2 weeks every friday, 2 of my friends and these 2 girls (1 including her of course) would hang out and talk after class for 10-20 minutes. I felt like while we were talking as a group, she would always be looking towards my direction, laughing at my jokes, and asking me questions. I was thinking in my head that these signs were so obvious, but I was so intimidated by this girl that I froze up at the thought of getting her number. Today was the last day of our class and we were all talking today again and the same thing happened...the obvious signs. We all had something going on after class, so everyone was eager to leave school. As my friends and I were walking to our cars after we all said our goodbyes, I was just looking at her as she was way ahead of us, and I kept thinking to myself: "How the hell could I approach her right now after saying goodbye?" And then she was gone. I never even found out what her name was.

I don't know if any of you guys experienced the same thing I went through today, but now I feel that there will be this dark cloud hovering above me for a while and I'll be filled with regret because I didn't get her number. Talking to girls and exchanging numbers is usually so natural to me, but this 1 girl, I just couldn't bring myself to do it. She was literally the perfect girl in my eyes and I messed up. One of my friends has her in a class next semester, so maybe that can be my chance at seeing her again, but I dunno. Sorry if this is confusing. If you don't understand what I'm saying please don't hesitate to ask me to explain more.

Any thoughts/opinions/similar situations would be appreciated.



Thanks

Im going to guess this is the last day of this class? and you think you wont see her again?
The problem is your fear comes from putting her up on a pedastal dont do that next time and just ask.

While on a train i saw a cute indian girl with a model of a molecule, i got the guts went over asked what it was Cycolohexane she says i say sugar and run lol.
From here on i know all about the hexane chemistry.

[Primernova]

As my friends and I were walking to our cars after we all said our goodbyes, I was just looking at her as she was way ahead of us, and I kept thinking to myself: "How the hell could I approach her right now after saying goodbye?"

This is why you have legs, you run to catch up to her and strike the conversation back up. This is the perfect setting to move things forward. Their is no trick to these things, a girl knows 5 seconds after she meets a guy if she has any interest and this one obviously did.

"Strike while the iron is hot" applies here.

[Kouki]

This is why you have legs, you run to catch up to her and strike the conversation back up. This is the perfect setting to move things forward. Their is no trick to these things, a girl knows 5 seconds after she meets a guy if she has any interest and this one obviously did.

"Strike while the iron is hot" applies here.

I agree, before you meet again in an old folks home.

[Jackmoves]

Even the completely pointless ones.

It was my pleasure, it was a real tip btw, worked for me!

Seriously though good luck dude, should be easy enough to get in contact with her.

ps. don't forget the lub when you do (see) her

[SirRoro]

Hey everyone!

Actually had the same problem as this guy. Currently in high school and I do debating. We do this thing where we verse other schools for 5 debates, a different school each time. In one of my debates, me and her kept making eye contact and smiling at each other. When it ended, she came and talked to me, completely ignoring my teammates. She talked a lot to me and it was as if she trusted me, though she only knew me for an hour. We kept talking when I eventually went home. I felt like a douche for not asking her of her name or number. I just had another debate last night and she was walking past our class. She peeked in, lightly tapped on the window till I saw her and she waved at me. I was so happy that she recognised me. So this time I thought that I wouldn't mess up and would actually ask her of her name. But the debate ended later than expected and by the time I came out, she was gone. The only time i'll ever see her again is in a year when the debating competition happens again. Hopefully she does it as well.

So i've never really talked to a girl before this and just need some 'expert' advice on what I should say the next time I see her. I'm open to any suggestions.

Thanks!

[Independent voter]

Follow her around at a discreet distance, you can find videos on YouTube on how to follow people. Wait for an opportunity like when she is approaching a door, run up and open the door for her, say 'weren't you at the debate?' She'll say yes and then you can start up a conversation.

Easy peasy.

[zenkai]

Follow her around at a discreet distance, you can find videos on YouTube on how to follow people. Wait for an opportunity like when she is approaching a door, run up and open the door for her, say 'weren't you at the debate?' She'll say yes and then you can start up a conversation.

Easy peasy.

Holy Necro batman!

[united]

Hey everyone!

Actually had the same problem as this guy. Currently in high school and I do debating. We do this thing where we verse other schools for 5 debates, a different school each time. In one of my debates, me and her kept making eye contact and smiling at each other. When it ended, she came and talked to me, completely ignoring my teammates. She talked a lot to me and it was as if she trusted me, though she only knew me for an hour. We kept talking when I eventually went home. I felt like a douche for not asking her of her name or number. I just had another debate last night and she was walking past our class. She peeked in, lightly tapped on the window till I saw her and she waved at me. I was so happy that she recognised me. So this time I thought that I wouldn't mess up and would actually ask her of her name. But the debate ended later than expected and by the time I came out, she was gone. The only time i'll ever see her again is in a year when the debating competition happens again. Hopefully she does it as well.

So i've never really talked to a girl before this and just need some 'expert' advice on what I should say the next time I see her. I'm open to any suggestions.

Thanks!

post on your main account next time.

[Thoughtful Trolli]

Yeah I plan on avoiding the whole stalker thing haha. That's just too much.



I'm almost 20, been dating and fucking around with girls for all of high school. This time, I actually feel like I messed up the greatest opportunity.

You've "supposedly" fucked enough to never put pussy on a pedestal. Just think of HER right now, and rip her off that pedestal and start fucking her. SHE wants it too. Get your dick into her pussy as fast as possible and you'll BOTH be cured. If you don't approach her sexually next time, then something is wrong with you. Consider asking your doctor for cialis.

[Hilhen7]

Well seeing as you didn't even bother to ask / remember her name after hanging out twice, I'm guessing you simply had a crush / wanted her physically...

[Louisa Bannon]

Ouch......

[Jotaux]

Most of the time its better to just ask her out. If she says no, at least you will know.

I would just ask your friend to set something up, like a group thing or something, then you can ask her for her number.

[Sorshen]

We're reaching epic levels of necromancy here, almost 7 years.

[DrStiglit]

Mmmm necrophilia.

[dvaz]

OP married her with kids, or prolly in jail.

[Dasharin]

First thing I would do would be to log onto the internet and get advice from a bunch of gamers!!

yeah..that would be best

[smityx]

Im pretty sure this is exactly why Facebook was invented...and so people can tag unflattering photos of you

Don't the kids now avoid the facebooks. They'll say that's something my mom/grandmother uses? They're now into the snapgrams or something. GET OFF MY LAWN!

[Deleted]

In time and age of the internet/social networks it is really not that hard to find somebody.
A name and a general area she is from should suffice to locate her on the internet. :P

The more information you have, the easier.