I don't know what it is...maybe everyone gets this.
I feel like...people randomly throw out insults at me for no reason at all.
I'll be talking to someone normally or debating with them in a friendly manner... and then all of a sudden they'll throw out a random insult...and im like "err wot?" Before I got my first girlfriend, I'd constantly be called a virgin....but not in a FULL ON direct way...more if Im just talking to someone and they say "xx is a virgin haeheh" in a joking manner...but I don't understand why it's randomly being brought up - like pretty often.
I really have never understood why people do this. It's not complete strangers, it's more so family/friends and friends of friends who don't really know me, but know of me.
Is this just random banter or what? I don't show it but it really pisses me off because I never do it to anyone...and it seems to be said to me a lot.
I just ignore people when they say stuff like this. The thing is it's not said in a angry/forceful/threatening way, it's said in a calm/random/joking way...so I feel like I can't show them that Im angry, but I really want to punch their teeth in.
The main people who don't say things like this to me are my parents...my sisters boyfriend....pretty much only people that wouldn't talk shit to me or are too scared to shit talk me.....but pretty much most of my friends and friends of friends do random shit like that. When they do it makes me dislike them a lot and I just ignore it and pretend like nothing happened and in the future I just avoid the person because I don't like being around people that just throw out random insults.
I am a really happy easy going person, I pretty much never get angry with people...it's always people getting angry with me....and If I am angry...I don't take it out on other people, I just hide it and get over it. Is it because I am like this that it makes me a target for things like this?
Because of things like this, I avoid big social situations where lots of people are around, because it happens in any situation randomly, even when everything is just perfect, some douchebag will come in and ruin my day with something like this.
Would people notice that I am always happy and friendly? Could that be a reason why I am targetted for things like this? People just don't like other people being happy? Seriously what the hell man?