Sorry to break it to you, but I've seen instances of it happening like that.Sorry to break it to you but the second scenario would never happen like that.
Listen to this one; they know what they're talking about. Thankfully, it is slowly becoming less of a taboo for men to admit that they have been rape victims. Well; in the EU, at least. Because this was a huge problem; about half of all rape cases and cases of domestic abuse were never reported because there was such a large social stigma on men being victim to women.Women can rape men, most men just won't admit to it. Genders exist, but genders should also be treated equally. They aren't equal in all things yet, but they should be.
In fact, the Dutch police now puts out posters with the text: "Older than eighteen? Male? Victim of domestic abuse? Come to us!"