Hmm may finally have a girlfriend...

[sandmoth12]

Hmm actually never thought this would happen to me. Thought I was to weird, to cold hearted and to stand offish. However, I am not gonna count my chickens before they hatch. I pray that it's genuine but she may just using me for my math skills. So I am gonna prepare for that emotional hit now in case it's true. So hope for the best prepare for the worst that's my situation.

[Lysah]

Refuse to help her with math and you'll know.

[2Loud]

Refuse to help her with math and you'll know.

and if she is shy and views that as a rejection?

[Blood Fox]

Lysah hit the nail on the head.

Personally I know im too cold hearted to find love... the difference is I really don't care.

[Deleted]

and if she is shy and views that as a rejection?

Pretend to be bad at math?

[sandmoth12]

Refuse to help her with math and you'll know.

Eh I don't wanna do that. I have already pre-thought way ahead. If it turns out she is using me I am still gonna help her with math. I am already preparing for the emotional hit so if it happens I wont be upset. However, I will continue to help her because if I am able to teach her the complexities of calculus mathematics then I will be even that much greater and more confidant in my skills. Of course i am gonna keep this secret to myself. Basically if she thinks shes using me I am using her right back.

[grandpab]

And remember, don't keep your condoms in your wallet.

[sandmoth12]

Lysah hit the nail on the head.

Personally I know im too cold hearted to find love... the difference is I really don't care.

Oh I would bet I have you beat by a landslide.

[2Loud]

and remember, don't keep your condoms in your wallet.

super important!!

[sandmoth12]

And remember, don't keep your condoms in your wallet.

But it's the most convenient place to keep them.

[Deleted]

But it's the most convenient place to keep them.

Real bosses don't wear condoms and mind control their sperm instead.

True story.

...what was the question again?

[Lansworthy]

Congratulations if you get her!
If not exchange math for blowjobs. Either way Congratulations!

[Joedirtt]

Haha great advice! :P

[Prancing Minstrel]

So...is she at university or something then? You're 27 so I'm guessing she isn't at school.

[Deleted]

So...is she at university or something then? You're 27 so I'm guessing she isn't at school.

Or is she? O_O

[Deleted]

By the looks of things from the reply to the suggestion Lysah gave you, it seems to me like you really look for a reason to be around this girl(math just happened to be your ticket to her attention).First you describe yourself like "cold hearted and to stand offish" and you would help this girl anyway if she isn't interested in you beyond math.
That and also you don't say you have a girl/boyfriend before someone explicitly behaves/talks to you as such.

Either way my first reaction to this topic was to cringe.No insult intended towards you but nowhere on any other forums I usually browse will anyone make a topic about getting a boy/girlfriend and use the word "finally" in the title as well.You know why? Because it is something... natural and common, at least it should be.
Now I'll try not to offend anyone but I've known people who are ugly as f**k and a bit dumb on top of that, and even those eventually got married one way or the other so this is why I cringed hard at your situation.

When you will get out of school/highschool and you might have started/ended a second relationship you will understand how silly it was to get giddy about a potential relationship.

[Famezilla]

Is she paying you for the tutoring?

If so, when she asks something along the lines of, "So what do I owe you," try refusing payment and use that as an opportunity to buy her dinner. If she says no, then at least you still get the money.

[sandmoth12]

By the looks of things from the reply to the suggestion Lysah gave you, it seems to me like you really look for a reason to be around this girl(math just happened to be your ticket to her attention).First you describe yourself like "cold hearted and to stand offish" and you would help this girl anyway if she isn't interested in you beyond math.
That and also you don't say you have a girl/boyfriend before someone explicitly behaves/talks to you as such.

Either way my first reaction to this topic was to cringe.No insult intended towards you but nowhere on any other forums I usually browse will anyone make a topic about getting a boy/girlfriend and use the word "finally" in the title as well.You know why? Because it is something... natural and common, at least it should be.
Now I'll try not to offend anyone but I've known people who are ugly as f**k and a bit dumb on top of that, and even those eventually got married one way or the other so this is why I cringed hard at your situation.

When you will get out of school/highschool and you might have started/ended a second relationship you will understand how silly it was to get giddy about a potential relationship.

Relax. Like I said I am already preparing to be let down. Not gonna get my hopes up and get all giddy and stupid.

---------- Post added 2012-03-11 at 08:56 PM ----------

Is she paying you for the tutoring?

If so, when she asks something along the lines of, "So what do I owe you," try refusing payment and use that as an opportunity to buy her dinner. If she says no, then at least you still get the money.

No payment. We are taking the same subject. I just have decent math skills. We meet places study and talk. I think I have detected hints she likes me but I may be wrong. No reasons to get my hopes way up only to be crushed down. I will simply keep doing what I am doing and let things go where they go. I am not in control of the situation.

[Toroc]

Have you ever experienced this "emotional hit"?

If not, you cannot prepare for something you've personally never felt.

[sandmoth12]

Have you ever experienced this "emotional hit"?

If not, you cannot prepare for something you've personally never felt.

Have I been rejected by girls before? LOL so many times I am practically numb to it.