I can attest to that as well. Still see towns very busy with lots of players.
I'm in the same boat too. Wildstar's hardcore focus turns me off, and I'm not very interested in Craglorn's "hardcore" content either. I wish they give us some options to explore Craglorn solo. Still, I like a lot what they're promising in their future updates ("The Road Ahead - June 4th") so I'm happy for now.