Originally Posted by
Myrrar
Because if there had been serious relationship problems she would have said so. Many people in this thread have been there, and in almost all cases it's not a problem with person A and Bs relationship, it's adding in person C that causes the problems. Now, no one knows 100% which way it is, but from the countless people who posted here and had been there themselves, it's pretty obvious what happened.
Relationships take work. If there were serious problems she would have left her bf as soon as she started being interested in someone else, she would have known things were over between them. If you are really unhappy and you know you are no longer into your bf, you don't just stick around. The only time you do is if you want to stick it out and work on it. Sitting on the computer all day and e-flirting with your bfs best friend is kind of the opposite.
I honestly doubt she is even telling us the whole story to try and make herself look a little better, because it doesn't make much sense.