Okay my thoughts are a little scrambled and I need some help putting them back together for some advice on how to handle this situation. 5 months ago me and my friend (We'll call him friend A since he's the main person) went to a rave and he took some pill I don't remember what it is. Anyways his parents caught him that night after he came home and then his parents also found out that he, friend B and I had been smoking weed earlier that month from reading his text messages. They didn't seem to care about the weed at all and were only concerned about him taking the pills. Being a good friend I wanted to redeem my reputation with his parents and help him out at the same time. I decided that Friend A and I would start going to a local gym to work out (We were planning to do this anyway). My plan worked and we got the "druggie" status removed from our names and things had been fine ever since. However last weekend Friend A, Friend B, and I pooled together a little money after a football game to get some weed. This was on the down low and absolutely no one knew of it except us three. We did it, it was great and around rolls Monday.
Everything seemed fine and dandy that day. After school like usual we went to the gym to do our workout. Did it, came home and then at 7 PM I get a text from Friend A saying that he got caught again. So today at school I asked him "How did you get caught". Friend A tells me "My sister (who is at a college an entire state away) heard rumors that I was popping pills." After he tells me that I'm just baffled to how she hears that. His sister called his parents crying to know if it was true to what he had been doing. His dad whipped out a drug test after Friend A got home from the gym, and of course he failed it.
This is where the deep stuff comes in. Friend A's parents asked him when he smoked weed and he openly admitted to doing it on Friday with Friend B and I. However I think an excuse he could have used is going to Lollapalooza, there's tons of weed there but his parents trusted him to go there. It would have still been in his system right now with all of it he did. His parents then tell him that he is never allowed to be around Friend B and I outside of school. And apparently this means going to work out, which we have been doing for 5 months straight. I understand what they must be going through but this is a little much. For two people that do something as healthy as hitting the gym and bulking up for 5 months, can't you put a little leniency on that? Also me, Friend A and Friend B are all in Honors AP classes at our high school. And on top of that it was Friend A's idea to get weed in the first place. But he doesn't think that will help out me and Friend B's situation at all. I talked to Friend A today and he told me "We'll never be able to hang out again or go to the gym." He said the same thing to Friend B. It seemed like he was trying to make that clear to both of us as he seemed like he kept repeating that phrase throughout the day. He was not even punished. He is allowed to do all the things he could normally do if he didn't get caught, except be around me and Friend B outside of school. I feel like he's trying to end our 4 year long friendship with his mistakes. I tried to tell him to talk to his parents to get them to understand but he said he won't. I know he'll still do these things just with other people.
I need some advice on how to work this out with Friend A or his parents. I don't want to lose him as a friend. And it could label me as a "druggie" once more (which I am not, I've smoked like 3 times in my life). All the parents at our school talk with one another so it's probably not soon until I get that title. Thanks for any advice!! I'm not homosexual by the way so in case some oddball decides to pull that card, just don't. We're just good friends.