That rule is pretty accurate as long as you're not: Homosexual, In a relationship or older than 60.
A single heterosexual guy in his 20's-30's who is friends with a girl, possibly very attractive girl and not having a dirty thought or plans? really?
It's not something to live by, but it's good to keep in mind if your lady friend find a new guy friend, who of course just wants to be friends.
This is how OP found his potential lady and how I found a few of my former girl friends and how I lost a few of them.
It's not just immature blabbering.
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I have a few female friends whom I've known for years, although they have never gone beyond that (them never wanting to be more than friends) means I'm a little more cautious - I've been burned too many times.
On topic through you really have nothing to lose, go ahead and ask her.
Nah the rule is " a girl can have guy friends, a guy can only have girl friends if he isn't expecting anything from them."
I have some girl friends who are attractive, but them being in a couple rules them out of my list, so they will remain friends.
I think the main point is that the occasional lustful thought doesn't need to trump a friendship. Humans are sexual creatures for the most part, save for maybe asexuals, so it's going to be a factor sometimes. It's all about maturity and knowing how to process the thoughts when they do happen.
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Don't listen to these people! Lash out and attack the guy to establish dominance and show your feelings at the same time.
Seriously though... Have to agree with everyone else, talking works best.
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If a person of one gender is in contact with another person of appropriate gender for their sexuality for an extended period of time, sexual attraction will naturally decline for both parties if no sexual action is taken. This is more pronounced during childhood and tapers off towards adulthood; it's an in-built anti-incest defense mechanism that can sometimes give false positives and false negatives.
Just ask. Seriously, ask. The longer you spend procrastinating the more you wind up in Friend Zone. Women like it when you're bold anyway (bold, not pushy).
Maybe this guy is some other poor suitor who took too long and wound up banished to Friend Zone for all eternity!
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Irrelevant if you get in before he does!