Falling in Love, a Curse or a Blessing?

[Moinaldo]

In this selfish fucked up world, it is definitely a curse. Enough said.

[Kivimetsan]

curse. 150% curse. especially when you fall in love with a relative. when she rejects you (and she will do it), it makes things so awkward on family meetings.

Yeah when I was a teen I had this thing for my aunt...

[zorkuus]

Depends on the person you fall for. If it's someone who doesn't share the feeling then tough luck...

[DEATHETERNAL]

Right at this moment, a curse as I am a few years away from having the financial outlook good enough to be able to support a family. Give it three years then it will be a blessing.

Though, I imagine if I fell for someone now who would faithfully wait 3 years for me to be fully ready, then that person would likely be infinitely more than I deserve and a blessing anyway.

[Collegeguy]

It becomes a curse eventually. Your not going to be with them forever.

[Giants41]

Since its mmo-champion, most people are negative and will say curse. Love is a blessing unless it goes bad. If it never goes bad your blessed for the rest of your life!

[Deleted]

It's a terrible flu that ends up after 2 years(biology is actually involved here), regardless of leaving or staying with the person at matter. If you are staying it's worse. You will come to a day where you won't be able to stand each others' presence, and talk about your boring, bland current life. This form of marriage we have today(which is the least common in the entire human history) is what's making people miserable.

[inux94]

Indifferent, never felt it.

[Deleted]

Since its mmo-champion, most people are negative and will say curse.

Because people in real life people are too scared to admit what they believe, since they don't want to become rejected by society, a society which includes a whole lot of people who have the very same thoughts, but they blindly follow a social custom. To lie to yourself, just to make everything seem nice and cute.

It's like posing in a picture. Fake.

I am not saying that that kind of "love"(try loving someone obese without having a fetish for it, then we'll talk about how real love is) is not possible. But it's deranged to promote it like this when it's so rare.

[Deleted]

It's a blessing if the person you fall in love for, fall in love to.
Otherwise, It's a curse. So I dont answer the poll

[PizzaSHARK]

Indifferent. It's nice to have, but it can be a negative influence on your life, too, especially when things inevitably fall apart. I personally don't miss that kind of thing very much these days, too much hassle.

[StayTuned]

It can be both, whereas it is more of a curse to me. Once I see that I like a girl too much, I quit contact with her because I know we couldnt be together anyway at this specific point in time. Too bad this point is already lasting for 24 years.

[Kawwah]

I would say a curse. There are just to many stupid rules nowadays. I also try my best to avoid that stuff.

[Powerogue]

double edged sword. It's probably the emotional state where you're the least possibly in control of your own happiness and sadness. Ups and downs, like a rollercoaster, yet we persist because the mating instinct is stronger than our common sense or fear of rejection .

[StaeleAilar]

It's a little of both, though i have intentionally gone out of my way to make sure that anyone that i thought i started having feelings towards wound up hating and leaving me alone, since that's what would have happened in the end anyway. Save the time and save them any chance of pain if they were going to end up feeling the same toward me.
I still feel it, and currently feel it, just don't tell them and act indifferent about it if they ask.

[Eis]

I went with curse. >.> I may be an angry and bitter person though.

[Resentful]

Double Edged sword, It can be either depending on who you choose to be with.

[Deleted]

A blessing if it's mutual, a curse if it's unrequited.

[Deleted]

curse mostly a burden and alot of pain can turn you blind to all logic and reason when it comes to the one inlove with and chances often seem slim both feels the same way or that it will last in the long run.

[Reluctant]

Both, it can be a blessing whenn its answered and turns into a great relationship.
But its a curse whenn that doesn't happen.

I also believe real love is very rare, alot of people yust get togheter with someone out of social pressure.