Originally Posted by
Gheld
I eat whatever the hell I want and I've lost 10 lbs in the last month. The key is wanting to eat more reasonable portions, and healthier foods. Food becomes an addiction. Eating shitty food feels good (at the time) despite the horrible health consequences.
But at the same time, there's a time and place for ice cream, and cheese burgers. That time is occasionally and the place is at family barbecues and amusement parks.
But I think the number 1 factor in peoples endeavor to lose weight, is honestly. Intellectual dishonesty is a big part of human nature. "I've been eating healthy but I keep gaining weight." is a complete lie. Because you have to eat too much to gain weight, and eating too much is not eating healthy.
I never lied to myself when I put on the "Freshly divorced 50" when I split with my ex common-law wifey 2 years ago. Which helps with getting results; you have to admit to yourself that you just drank that can of mountain dew and adjust the rest of your meal planning to compensate. I ate shitty food, and lots of it, because it made me feel good when nothing else would. On the way there, I admitted that I was getting fat, and when I got there I readily admitted that I'm now fat. Although fat is all relatively speaking. I'm more of a chubby bull, physique wise. My size 38 jeans were starting to get tight on me, and I'd consider size 40s "Fat pants" and I wasn't about to go there; and that's when realized I really needed to get on it.
A month later I can already wear some of my less shrunken pairs of size 36 jeans comfortably again. And honestly, to be able to set a goal, achieve it and see the results feels really fucking good; no cheeseburger or pail of ice cream can even remotely compare. My goal was to lose as much weight as I've lost by the end of June, so now I'm setting a goal to shave off another 5-10 lbs by the end of July! (Although navigating the perils of summer barbecues and cold ice cream treats will be difficult).
Although 5 lbs a month is probably around the median maximum healthy rate to lose weight without medical supervision (pulling off 10 on my part could have been a fluke, or just because I work in a very physically demanding job). If your country has health care, and you are fat. Go to your doctor, and tell him you are fat. Be honest. "I'm fat, and I want to change that." and he should be able to provide you with advice, or refer you to somebody who can.
No piece of dietary quackery, or novelty book can even remotely come close to being able to replace the advice of SOMEBODY WHO SPENT 10 YEARS RIGOROUSLY STUDYING THE TOPIC OF HUMAN HEALTH. (So if you're having difficulty losing weight, don't ask me, don't ask the internet, ask your doctor.)