Would like to see armory link since it's pretty easy to hit the caps for both hit and expertise in 463 gear. Otherwise, using hybrid gems for the stat(s) you are under cap with is the way to go, and smart reforging.
How do you guys deal with the loss of stats such as hit and expertise when going SMF?
generally, reforge, hybrid gems (crit hit or crit exp)
Don't worry about losing dps without these stats since they will still be attainable through the above mentioned methods, the weapon upgrade and damage is more than enough to offset the stats lost ie: crit & mast