As long as everyone knows about what's going on, sure.
If you have to lie about it or keep it secret for people to be ok with it, then no.
As long as everyone knows about what's going on, sure.
If you have to lie about it or keep it secret for people to be ok with it, then no.
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Depends. If you and the girls are okay with the idea, and you are using safe practices, I don't see an issue. However if anyone in the party involved is in danger of getting hurt (emotionally or physically) then I'd advise against it.
This thread serves little purpose but to infract people pointing out the obvious.
And no, this isn't some patriarchal time. I'm going to make a little assumption that the OP would feel devalued if he had a GF who openly said she had to have more than one. But it's "okay" for him to show no loyalty to his partners.
*sigh*
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In a relationship, as long as it's legal and consensual: go for it. I personally would not like having more than one boyfriend at a time. But to each his own.
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No it is not okay. You should love your GF and no other girls. If you do love another girl break up with your current GF.
Speaking from a guy's perspective, you really need to sort out the difference between dating and a relationship
Dating-wise, it's perfectly fine seeing more then one at a time.., be sure to mention it though, if the conversation touches on the subject..., also perfectly natural when your not very mature / old, but it'll pass in time.
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"so what do we do?" "well jack, you stand there and say 'gee rocket raccoon I'm so glad you brought that Unfeasibly large cannon with you..' and i go like this BRAKKA BRAKKA BRAKKA" - Rocket Raccoon
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If everyone are on the same page and agree about it, yes, then it's absolutely alright.
It was in fact common practice ages ago and still is in many parts of the world. Western world frowns on it mostly because of certain influences from certain group of moralists that liked to force their view on people.
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OT: No, I have always had one girlfriend at a time. Monogomy, to me, is the only way to maintain a stable relationship.
Kind of funny, I still think a lot of people would pay for it! Sad though
It doesen't work in todays world. One always gets jealous and well not being able to marry 2 women you'll have to go for 1 or another
Or either not marry. And if one girls says Me or her! You're going to have a hell of a hard time to choose.
You'll be going to 1 girl again wich is 1 less, you may not feel as "saftisfied" anymore.
And then you miss the other one and probably try to cheat~ I can go on forever really
Last edited by mmoce3c3da46cf; 2012-12-02 at 12:23 AM.
Maybe you should ask yourself ... you'd like it if your GF was shagging multiple dudes, about 3, so she won't get bored? Seems OK?