i hate it when they call you "buddy" or "man"
Friendzoned, damned into an eternity of friendship.
You are in muddy waters so what you want requires quite a bit of discretion and you are going to have to accept losing the girl as a friend to proceed. You really need to figure out her thoughts before proceeding. Is she a bit more physically playful with you as opposed to other guys she knows. Does her mood change a bit when she finds out you are dating someone new when she isn't. You really need to look for some queues.
I have to say your getting mixed signals. On the one end she broke up with her boyfriend due to having feelings for you but she says she just wants to be friends and wants things to back the way they were.
I would suggest being her friend and hopefully down the line she will get her feelings figured out. Just out of curiosity have you told her your feelings?
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And asexuals aren't quite right in the head, either. If they're intact and their hormones are being produced and received normally, they will have a sex drive. If you lack libido and you're the appropriate age for making babies, it's an indication that something's up with your hormones.
Now, it's possible to have a sex drive you reject or ignore; that's not being asexual, that's just trying to develop some kind of psychosis.
Intimate sex is essentially the physical expression of what people call love.
Wait. As in, you've never met? Or you two know each other and see each other regularly and you just happen to do most of your talking while stabbing orcs?
Being friendzoned means you got rejected and you couldn't or wouldn't take the hint. That's it.
Because for whatever reason, people are fucking terrified of rejection. They feel "safer" when they don't have to interact face to face. Shit, haven't we had plenty of threads where someone's talking about how they texted this or that to someone? Even a fucking phone call is "too risky," it has to be something impersonal and "safe" like text messages.
This is 120% purified, refined bullshit. It's an excuse for being afraid to risk rejection, nothing more.
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THIS IS YOU. THIS IS WHAT YOU WILL BECOME AND ARE IN THE TRACK TO BECOME.
You are fucking LYING to yourself and you are LYING TO HER, too! If she told you no, accept the goddamned rejection and move on. Stop lying to yourself. Stop lying to her.
MOVE. ON.
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