Ah, so now we get down to brass tacks. When men are victimized, it's their fault. When women are victimized, it's not their fault. Got it. And let me tell you, I'm *shocked* that you hold that opinion. (Not really shocked.)
I missed the post about the infographic that a few people are discussing -- it's not RAINN's infographic, is it? That data is based on a massive set of unsupportable assumptions, and has been torn to shreds by better minds than me. (If that's not the data at issue, then never mind and carry on.)