So me and wife just got finished and I was wondering why is it (in my case) when im not drinking sex is all about staying in there and doing whatever i can to NOT go to soon, but when im drinking its soo much more fun and longer and im acually having to work to get it. How can I get to this point without the alcohol? On a side note be car full all you guys out there while you are single if you are going to masturbate make it last for a while. I realised before I got married whenever i jacked off it was quick and kinda hurried up and later when it came to performing in bed your penis will be expecting that same quick job done. So I say that to say this practice like its real.