Hello mmo this is my story on smoking, how much of you smoke or have smoked and are you planning on stopping or stopping?
I don't expect people on the internet to learn anything from my story or so but i hope it atleast inspires some of you to never pick up smoking or maybe even help you stop.
I was diagnosed with organ alteration about 2 years ago, it means almost every organ in my torso is deformed, misplaced or both. In the Klina hospital in brasschaat they had never seen anything like it and in the UZ leuven (THE hospital in flanders) they had only seen it once or twice. What are the concequences of this deformity ? I have only one working lung which barely works and alot of heart issues. Now when my boyfriend of 8 months broke up one year ago i was smashed, he had ripped my heart out and taken a poop on it. His mother had abandoned nest issues and she never liked that her son had me and spend time with me, she wanted her little boy for herself while this guy was 20 at home he was threated like a 12 year old child which made it hard for us to be together and he broke up because of his mom pressuring him into it. Now he knew about my organ alteration and had seen some of the struggles i had been dealing with. After the break-up he kept saying he loved me and that he'd come back, every day he texted me this. Now I promised to wait for him but after 4 months i couldn't deal with it anymore, i wanted him to care that i was falling appart because of him. For example he'd say he'd come back before his birthday but then at his birthday he said he needed more time (i even bought him a 300 eur bobba fett figurene because he was in love with bobba fett). I was sitting with my friend who smoke too and i asked for one, i didn't even know why. I got a cigarette and smoked it in hopes he'd see i was killing myself as cigarettes are even more dangerous for me since both my lungs and hearts have issues. A few cigarettes each weekend started to turn into a few every 3 days, every 2 days and then every day. At first i didn't have any problems but after a while i'd get one discolored finger and of course my teeth weren't as white anymore (no matter how much i brushed them). I also have these coughs when i woke up that lasted up to 30 minutes of non-stop coughing. After waiting half a year for him he said again he needed more time and i basically stopped hoping from there but i got addicting to smoking. Most friends of mine remember me when i was younger : I hated smoking, i hated the smell and i didnt understand why people would pay to get diseases but now i had become a smoker myself. Now my parents found out i was smoking and were REALLY disapointed in me and kept whining about the smell, the fact i was smoking and about how much money i'd spend on it. September 2012 i had to go to the hospital due to my heart rythm failing and i had to stay there for 3 months but i kept smoking there. Now before my hospitalisation i got together with a new boyfriend who stopped smoking (he didnt smoke much but he did it every once in a while). At this point i started thinking 'bout everything : the reason i started is gone, it's bad for me, it DOES smell, it costs so much money, it's cold when you have to go smoke outside. It didn't seem worth it anymore, now i tried to stop before this but after a day or 2 without smoking I NEEDED one, i'd be really nervous and such and gave in. The tabakstop lijn (it's a number you can call to stop smoking) didn't help either but my mom who works in a hospital adviced these pills that would help me stop smoking. These pills are pretty expencive, at first i could smoke one or two cigarettes with the pills but after a while i couldn't, i'd become ill.
Now i've stopped smoking but it cost me alot of things : alot of money, 3 months of my life and abit of dignity as i always said to myself i'd never smoke. As for the ex he never came back and i am still with the 'new' boyfriend today and we're happier than ever.
This was my story MMO feel free to post yours, i hope this may inspire some people and helps them stop smoking. I don't hate or dislike smokers, i just am happy i got rid of it. Sorry if there are alot of mistakes: English is not my native language and i have Dyslexia but i tried to do my best.