First date: Do you sleep with her / him?

[Jaylock]

First, let me preface this by saying, I have never done this before on the first date. I like to take my time and get to know the girl at least a little bit, just so I know im not getting with some complete psycho crazy girl. That being said:

1) Have you ever had sex with someone on the first date?

2) If you have, did anything come of it, or was it just a one night stand?

3) If you have not, do you generally have a certain number of dates that you like to go on before you will sleep with them?

[Rukentuts]

1) No.

2) N/A

3) Not a set number. But I would not be arbitrary about it.

[IRL]

First, let me preface this by saying, I have never done this before on the first date. I like to take my time and get to know the girl at least a little bit, just so I know im not getting with some complete psycho crazy girl. That being said:

1) Have you ever had sex with someone on the first date?

2) If you have, did anything come of it, or was it just a one night stand?

3) If you have not, do you generally have a certain number of dates that you like to go on before you will sleep with them?

Wow, I wouldn't even KISS a girl on our first date! (I liked to wait until at least the third date so I knew more about her.)

As for sex, my wife and I waited until we were married to have sex. (We dated for 5 years before I proposed.). And I will say that Our marriage has been blessed as a result of waiting.

[Deleted]

First, let me preface this by saying, I have never done this before on the first date. I like to take my time and get to know the girl at least a little bit, just so I know im not getting with some complete psycho crazy girl. That being said:

1) Have you ever had sex with someone on the first date?

2) If you have, did anything come of it, or was it just a one night stand?

3) If you have not, do you generally have a certain number of dates that you like to go on before you will sleep with them?

1) Yes

2) still together 8 years later

3) N/A

I believe that people can be sexually compatible, I would rather find out if we are or not as soon as possible.

[Deleted]

1) Cant remember, haven't really 'dated'. Went for drinks and had sex with people but wouldn't say it was a date as such.

2) Most the people I've asked out for a date I've end up having a relationship with but I have had one night stands after just going for a drink with a friend.

3) Why wait for someone if they are gonna put out anyway.....

[Deleted]

To be completely truthful, I dont really do dates. I hate that custom.. it's like going to a supermarket. So I usually know him really well before going out as a couple and these are already at least some feelings involved. I've only been in a relationship twice and it only got more serious and lasted over 4 months once though.

so um..

1) no, casually sleeping with someone doesnt interest me at all.. it's boring, and if he insists on it, he's not for me

2) -

3) I don't really do dates. He's either willing to spend time with me and let me into hes life more than just a few nights out or hes not worth it. I dont make him wait, it just happens more naturally when we both feel like it, instead of after a night out in a half drunken state..

[Wikiy]

I'll do this without answering the questions. I'm gay which means I have to use dating sites. I've had dates where I slept with the person the first time and dates which were simply trials to see whether something like a relationship was possible. Personally, I prefer going on sex dates and then seeing whether a relationship can come out of that. I'm not one for waiting weeks or months in a relationship to do something sexual for absolutely no reason besides arbitrary societal norms that make absolutely no sense.

[Deleted]

Where I'm from we don't ''date'' that much outside relationships really. I've been on a date with a girl that my sister set me up with (didn't spark an interest, so nothing happened), and I've hooked up with a friend of a friend during a night out the three of us (not for me either, but pretty sexy). I guess, if I saw relationship potential then I wouldn't sleep with them until I got to know the person, but if I didn't, then one night moving on sounds fine.

As for question no. 3 - No, not really.

[RicardoZ]

I've found that generally when I slept with somebody on the first date, there usually wasn't much interaction after that except for more sex, which lasted a couple of weeks and then the person just tapers off out of your life. So if you think this is a person you're going to be interested in for a long term relationship, I wouldn't recommend it.

[Ashnazg]

First, let me preface this by saying, I have never done this before on the first date. I like to take my time and get to know the girl at least a little bit, just so I know im not getting with some complete psycho crazy girl. That being said:

1) Have you ever had sex with someone on the first date?

2) If you have, did anything come of it, or was it just a one night stand?

3) If you have not, do you generally have a certain number of dates that you like to go on before you will sleep with them?

1. Yes (I've had sex with people on the first date, and sex with people w/o a first date - e.g. bar one night stands)
2. No, not in any of the cases, but not for reasons that I was prejudiced against girls who put out on the first date - most of them turned out incompatible at some point down the road, and one was just a very selfish fuck.
3. No arbitrary number. I have no qualms about sleeping with someone immediately. I view physical relationship as part of the complete package, and the notion of waiting until marriage (or a certain # of dates) to have sex to be folly.

[Wilian]

I don't do dating but I'll adapt to the questions:

1) Have you ever had sex with someone on the first date?

Yes, there's very little reason to go out otherwise.

2) If you have, did anything come of it, or was it just a one night stand?

Thankfully no protections have failed yet so it has remained one nighters

3) If you have not, do you generally have a certain number of dates that you like to go on before you will sleep with them?

No, I don't do multiple dates.

[Sorensen]

Ok as a straight male, what is a date?

[Tinykong]

Yes, Yes and No, No

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Ok as a straight male, what is a date?

The socially accepted form of payment for sexual relations.

[K i s u]

1) No and hasn't ever been anything I'm interested in.
2) N/A.
3) Not really an ideal number, its until I feel comfortable with a person and have feelings for them.

[Razorice]

1) Yes
2) One night stand

[Sam the Wiser]

Ugh I'm still waiting on my first date. Any takers?

[Raiju]

1. No, a first date for me is a test often to see if I even like them as a person. I'd generally like to go home and ponder over how I felt during the date.
2. N/A
3. No, I could break my rule if I felt it right but generally it's just when I feel I want to with them.

[lockedout]

1.) I don't think I have ever been on a "date"

2.) See #1

3.) I don't go on dates but if there is no sex there is no call back.

[Kuntantee]

Yes, I do but I most probably wouldn't marry with an easy woman or have a serious relationship.

1-yes
2-no
3-N/A

[Xanjori]

1- Yes

2- We've been in a 6 ½ year relationship.

3- no