... As in, it's crazy what some people will say because they have no clue about how to socially interact properly.
The consensus on this forum seems to be: "Bwahah women are all whores who only want men for their money, and they would rather fuck an outlaw biker instead of a nice guy like me."
PROTIP: Nice guy the way you mean it means emasculated sucker. It means you will debase yourself for her, act like a puppy and generally put her on a pedestal.
Second PROTIP: Women want a man they feel they are equal to, not a wimp. That's what most of the posters here posting about women (while having 0 experience with them!) are.
Now, a bit of advice. Appearance does not matter as much as you think! Being GROOMED is what is important. As in, don't stink, don't have disgusting oily unkempt long hair, don't act like you would with your RPG/Warhammer buddies (at least until later on). Don't wear ratty, mismatched salvation army clothes. Got all that? You are already getting better.
Also (most importantly perhaps) what you consider being a gentleman will get you dumped into the friends category really fast. If you want to be boyfriend material, you need to make it clear. As in, some kino and also actually, you know, asking her out. Otherwise how is she supposed to know you want to do her? Beautiful women meet tons of sucker that behave like perfect gentlemen and that want to do them but never act on it and get dumped into the friends category every day.
It's not about being an "asshole" (which is what most of the losers on this forum think the men that are doing the girls they like are). But these men are assertive and make it quite clear that they are with the girls, but the girls do not control them, or they do not worship her. That makes them automatically more attractive. And remember: If she comes to you crying about him fucking another girl, surprise her and tell her "Well you are choosing to be with him. Either dump him or stop talking about it to me." She won't fuck you but at least she will regain some consideration for you.
Now I am sure a lot of you will be in denial about this for some reason or the other, and think that I am just like you. Well, in a way you are right. I used to be just like that. I was the desperate, overweight (still am...) geek that absolutely wanted a gf. Know what? Never did get one until I told myself "Well you know what? Fuck this shit. It happens when it happens."
I was the archetypal shy fat geek, that girls did not really tell off because they did not want to hurt me.
Fuck me, I so wish they had. I wish a girl had given me a reality check ala "Look: You are fat, ugly, socially inept and a bit smelly too. Stop stalking me. Never going to happen."
Because this kind of rejection is what you need as a catalyst for real change. I had it way later on, when I asked a girl for her phone number and she answered "What for?". I thought I was going to die of shame. She did that in front of other people too. Hurt a lot, but thinking back it was a good experience.
Rejection is part of life. No matter how much you think you "love" that one girl in your class, the odds of you getting her are... Abysmally low. But the good news is: She ain't all that. There are billions of other girls out there. You just need to broaden your circle of acquaintances.
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Some of you will question what I just posted because... Well because they don't want to face the facts. Truth is, my current girlfriend (she is 22... And a 9-10) was quite a good source of info. She gets hit on constantly (obviously). Take for example this one guy, whose name starts with an M and is in her apprenticeship class. He is a good friend for her - he is heads over heel about her. She had a one night stand before she met me. Since he is her bitch and her "friend", she told him about it. He was like "I can't deal with this, etc..." And at another time he was like "You had a one night stand, why won't you sleep with me?".
That is the reason: He BEGGED for sex. How pathetic (and demeaning...) can you get?
Grow a spine. And understand that women are not materialistic (well, not any more than men are), you are just weak and unattractive because of your weakness.