I have a female friend that is having problems with her body mass. She feels that men don't like her because of her weight. She doesn't understand why men can't just like her for who she is. The only reason why looks matter to most is because of sex. Other than sex looks will be pretty much almost useless. She then told me it should be about the personality and not the looks. I told her then that personality doesn't have anything to do with sex. I think men and women who have this type of argument are just lazy.
These are the facts:
1. personality makes someone want to be with you.
2. looks makes a person want to have sex with you.
you need a combination of both in order to have a good relationship.