Is there any kind of website like ShadowCraft & FemaleDwarf specificly for Paladins? I would love to know, thanks!
retpaladin.com used to be a fairly relevant paladin blog. Tankspot was the go-to place for prot. If you go through the elitest jerks threads and look at the theorycrafter's blogs you'll probably find the best blogs for paladins out there.
there isn't really anything specifically for class building for paladins. there's talk about one though.
Because I want to say this every single day but don't want it to get a drag:
1) The ingame store will only sell timesaver items. It won't affect balance.
2) No, getting to 100 in half the time isn't pay2win. raids don't start until the second week, everyone has time to get there.
4) getting charms faster is also not pay2win. getting those is easy, but not everyone has the time or want for dailies.
Maintankadin has always been the place for prot palas. Thecks blog (sacredduty.net) is pretty awesome for prot.