My Girlfriend just Ditched me

[golds]

Ok, so we had plans to watch a movie tonight (nothing fancy, just on demand comcast bullshit) right?


Well she just got a new job and she been hanging out with this new girlfriend of hers (she doesn't have many girlfriends) and she went to have dinner with her tonight. She sends me a text that shes ditching me and going bar hopping with her friend shes trying to build a girly relationship with.

Should I be mad? Or am I just not giving her enough space? Would you be mad in this circumstance or am i over-reacting?


Keep in mind, we're together most nights.

What do you think?

[Gangresnake]

Maybe men were just not her thing

[Deleted]

Maybe she just wants a break from "most nights".She's found a new friend and it's all new so i wouldn't feel bad. Think of it as some more "you time".

[Flatspriest]

You are over-reacting. EVERYONE needs some time with their friends and away from their loved ones. It is how you build stronger relationships.

[Eldar45]

I'd be pissed if they were major plans, but for something like a movie night at home... meh. At least she told you that she was "ditching" you before you were expecting her.

For your relationship to blossom you definitely need nights off from each other.

[Nurabashi]

Nah, you said she doesn't have many girlfriends, so spending some new time with one, making a new friend, rather than doing what she would normally doing, it's fine.

[Brash]

She just wants to make some friends, maybe you should as well?

[golds]

She just wants to make some friends, maybe you should as well?

SHIT

truth

[Wynnyelle]

Doesn't seem like a big deal to me. I get to see my boyfriend all the time, but it's rare that I get a chance to hang out with my friends because our schedules don't really line up very well. I wouldn't throw a fit over it.

[tyrindor]

Your together most nights and your freaking out over 1 night she decides to go with someone else? If it was another guy, i'd be freaking out.. but another girl? I would say your extremely over reacting unless shes openly bisexual or something.

I'm lucky if my friends want to do stuff with me once a week, I normally only see them once or twice a month. I wish I had someone to hang out with most days, or even every weekend. I go out maybe once a month. Hell, my "best" friend went out with some other people last night and didn't invite me. So tonight I figured we could do something, but i've called him about a dozen times and he's been MIA all day which is very common with him. I wish I could find 1 loyal and reliable friend with similar interest, they just don't exist in my world.

[Tierbook]

ya of course she needs some time away have you ever dealt with a person for an extended period of time? its torture =P

[SL1200]

No you shouldn't be mad. Enjoy your night, do whatever it is you do; I'm sure you'll see her tomorrow.

[Brash]

SHIT

truth

Only because I've gone through the same thing myself, lol. My gf has a group of girls she goes out with on a regular basis and I would sit home alone, brooding, until I realized that simple fact.

[K i s u]

I wouldn't be too upset about it, sounds like she's trying to make a friend - especially since she doesnt have many girlfriends she can turn to.

[Nillah]

I wouldn't be upset about it unless it starts happening regularly(her ditching plans with you, I mean).

[Deleted]

Ok, so we had plans to watch a movie tonight (nothing fancy, just on demand comcast bullshit) right?


Well she just got a new job and she been hanging out with this new girlfriend of hers (she doesn't have many girlfriends) and she went to have dinner with her tonight. She sends me a text that shes ditching me and going bar hopping with her friend shes trying to build a girly relationship with.

Should I be mad? Or am I just not giving her enough space? Would you be mad in this circumstance or am i over-reacting?


Keep in mind, we're together most nights.

What do you think?

It depends on how she told you, and how close it was to the meet-up.

Personally i'd be fine with it - because this would be great to let her network with colleagues and the like, just add this night to the voucher of *Getting wasted with the guys* night.

Really though, from what you said about being together most nights - it doesn't seem bad.

[golds]

Thanks guys

i assumed mmo champ poster would be dickheads with shitty troll posts, but ive gotten a lot out of this


perhaps the internet isnt as horrible as you might imagine

[Deleted]

Thanks guys

i assumed mmo champ poster would be dickheads with shitty troll posts, but ive gotten a lot out of this


perhaps the internet isnt as horrible as you might imagine

I'd give this about 3 more hours and 2 more pages before the kids get here, best run!

[golds]

I'd give this about 3 more hours and 2 more pages before the kids get here, best run!

hah yes sir. perhaps ive only been lucky thus far

[dacoolist]

Ok, so we had plans to watch a movie tonight (nothing fancy, just on demand comcast bullshit) right?


Well she just got a new job and she been hanging out with this new girlfriend of hers (she doesn't have many girlfriends) and she went to have dinner with her tonight. She sends me a text that shes ditching me and going bar hopping with her friend shes trying to build a girly relationship with.

Should I be mad? Or am I just not giving her enough space? Would you be mad in this circumstance or am i over-reacting?


Keep in mind, we're together most nights.

What do you think?

It's good to do other stuff. I would be super sick hanging out with my Wife every night. EFF THAT NOISE!