EDIT1: We were at a party and I like to dance - she is very concerned about what people think about her, or about me, or anyone in here family - I had to remind her that, regardless of who you are, some people will like you and some will hate you - its just how the cookie crumbles. People are always prone to talk shit/gossip as well, so you can not live your life worrying all the time about what people may or may not think or say about you - the box comment was just so that I would "conform" to acting in certain ways especially in public so that she can feel good about herself. She doesn't like things she can not control, but I told her that we can't control everything.. some things we can, others not - just to be free. I hope this clears up some confusion.
Hello,
Been knowing my girlfriend for about 9 years as friends, been dating a little over a year. We had a discussion recently and it basically boiled down to her opening up about wanting to control things and have things go her way. To be blunt, she said that she sometimes wants to "put me in a little box to control me" - what does this mean and what should I do?