My minds gone blank and I can't think of any recent good games in this genre.
I'm not really looking for a game like Civilization with its focus on conquering and that sort of thing. I'm looking for something a little more similiar to Mount & Blades system where you can control a town and then you build upgrades for that town, ect, to make it more prosperous. Something like Gnomoria is alright where there are random attack events on the town and I have to defend it.
So yea...any help is greatly appreciated. Do note I am not looking for a military simulator.
Edit* It seems like the game Towns is sort of the style of game I want - I just don't find the graphics pleasing. Thats the biggest issue I had with gnomoria as well.
Regardless, it might be worth a try. Last time I heard about it it was a bit unfinished.