I'm just wondering this from a relatively by-stander perspective. I've been contemplating whether or not most married people/people in other forms of congruent relationships are actually in total love with their significant other or whether they just "tolerate" the presence of their spouse and carry on passively.
So, I thought I'd ask you all to share your experience (or I suppose lack thereof) with this:
Have you ever been in love with someone to the point where you're on the verge of obsession with him or her where you can not go by a few minutes without thinking of the significant other?
I haven't personally as I'm not that social and I don't really care for relationships beyond those with my parents/etc, but that's precisely why this intrigues me and that's also why I'd like to learn more about this and how someone can get to the point where another being becomes so important in their life.
thanks in advance for all of the input