Quote Originally Posted by Wildtree View Post
I am a buff whore, if you wanna call it that. So I pay attention to these things myself.. And here's my observation.
True, there are some who slacking with buffs and utility. But, honestly.. Yes, I believe it's a social behavior, triggered by the opposite side of the table.

What ever happened to actually asking?
Can we have a mage table please? Sounds not too shabby, does it?
But instead, you hear...
Mage, table! Lock, stone!

Like a command, like an order. You approach me like that, I say "fuck you" bring your own shit.
There is a multitude of reasons why someone doesn't cast the buff or utility the moment they enter an instance, be it raid or 5 man.
A polite question should solve the matter though.
If one asks and the person then ignores them, the ball is in the guys court that was asked. I've seen douches on that level too.
This, so much. What happened to common courtesy? "Can you" goes such a long way, imo.

The only thing that irks me as a healer is when people don't run back after a wipe, unless they've stated they need to do something and ask for a rez.