How do you deal with stupid people without coming across as arrogant? Mind you people you can't just disconnect from for whatever reasons. People who would ask you a question and between history channel, some wiki pages and maybe a few news articles you generate a reply that is met by emotional responses which look to make the content of the conversation personal? I know each person is unique but each time I find it turning from theoretical to personal I cannot tell if the person really is emotionally insecure or if it's just a tactic used to avoid confusing conversations.
I know now anger is worthless but with letting go of the anger, I begin to feel the whole conversation is pointless. How do you retain respect for people that you cannot just give up on when it's clear you're unable to reach them whenever they put this wall between you?
(Please note the "stupid" comment of mine is between us as i would never say this to the persons face.)