Originally Posted by
Decklan
A lot of people say they have no physical preferences.
Then they have a couple of relationships and find out they do.
Quality of a person's intellect and their personality determines whether or not they're someone I want to be friends with, or at least hang out with a lot.
Appearances and sexual "flexibility" as well as frequency determine how attracted to them I am.
I want my life partner to have BOTH. If I'm going to spend my life with them, I want to both be physically attracted to them and able to hold long conversations with them.
Saying that, I'm not attracted to men or black women, and my attraction level to asians, indians, and spanish are reduced. If not being sexually attracted to someone makes me racist in someone's eyes, then they can maintain their misguided views. I don't feel any negative emotions towards those races nor do I find them inferior in any way other than my sexual attraction to them.